I've been neglecting this blog because there really hasn't been much to report. We're plodding along, content with part-time ECing. We catch almost every poo, and the older she gets the more obvious her poo signals become. We catch all her wee's after she has had a sleep and most of the one's after she's had a feed. Her wee signaling never really returned after she learned to crawl, so we've stuck to the timing catches and little more.Recently she has decided she prefers not to use the potty and prefers to be held, the way we used to do it when she was a wee baby (no pun intended lol). She really loves having a mirror in front of herself when she's ECing so that she can see our faces too. She finds it much easier to relax when we're smiling at her through a mirror, and also it provides enough distraction so she doesn't get bored. It is a bit of a struggle to kepe her sitting on the potty during her business when she is so on-the-go and interested in the world around her, she doesn't want to sit still when there is so much to do.
We've had a couple more milestone funny moments. Now that she can stand she has done a couple of standing up poos, one when we weren't ready lol. I also had the pleasure of stepping in a number 2 miss the other day, ewwwww.
We will continue with our part-time ECing until she eases into toilet use over the next couple of years. If we get back to our successful cue reading we had in the early days that will be great, but we really don't mind if things stay as they are.
The important thing to us is that the communication remains open and she still has some awareness of her elimination instincts, which has been consistent since she was a newborn. She is familiar with the sensation of eliminating on the potty and other forms of eliminating outside of her pants, so the toilet will never be a terribly new concept to her. Since we've achieved those two things we class ours as an EC success story.
(photo: Mum & Bub ECing shortly after Bub's 1st birthday party).
1 comment:
Sounds like she's doing great! My little girl is 2 now and I relate to several things you mentioned here, they happened with mine too.
She tends to go through stages where she's more independent than others. Even from day to day. One day she's off to the bathroom by herself and takes care of everything on her own, other days she insists on not going until I am in there to help her. :)
The main thing I noticed which is what you said, is that because we've been doing this whole EC thing since she was tiny, we are not dealing with so many new and uncomfortable things at once. In addition to teething, meeting new people, falling down as she learns to walk,etc. it's nice to have pottying be a more relaxed thing in her life. :)
Your little one is sure a cutie by the way!
Chau.
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